Monday 15 September 2014

Tips for my non-homeschooling parent friends during this interminable teachers' strike!

Worried about your kids falling behind during this teachers’ strike?  A few people, knowing that I homeschool my son, have asked me for tips on resources.  Here are some of the suggestions I’ve made, based on our experiences:

#1 - the public library!  Just get lots of books.  All kinds of books.  On every topic under the Sun - and beyond!  If your child has a particular interest (be it a sport, hobby, art, etc), feel free to extend beyond the Children’s section.  If they’re reluctant readers, read to them, or invite other kids/friends/family to do so. Or get audio books.  Your librarian is your best friend.

These are the ones I use most often:

And here is a map with all the Lower Mainland libraries pinned:

Looking to buy textbooks or workbooks?  The Greater Vancouver Homelearners website has a listing for curriculum and book (and other cool stuff) suppliers, both local and online vendors:

Language arts

For the little ones:
(for learning to read)

Read something appropriate for their age/abilities to them (or have them read it themselves), then have them tell you back what happened (they can imagine they’re telling a friend or relative about it).  If they’re older, they can write out a wee summary.  This is called “narration”, and is a cornerstone of the “Charlotte Mason” method of education (she was a Victorian educator with some pretty radical ideas for her time, primarily focused on ensuring nobody wasted children’s time with “twaddle” i.e., unworthy material).

Two more Charlotte Mason gems:
  • Copywork - have them copy classic quotations that not only are written well (copying good writing is a start to writing well oneself) but may have some inspiration or value that you’d like to inspire in them.  Older kids can copy longer passages.
  • Dictation!  Old school works!  Read something to them, a little bit at a time, and they write it down.  Choose something of appropriate length and difficulty.

Peggy Kaye’s books Games for Writing, Games for Reading, and Games with Books are all excellent for the Primary school set.  I know there are a few copies scattered among the libraries.

Math
Ah… here’s the one people are most worried about!

Board games, card games, dice games, games, games, games!  Check thrift stores and garage sales if you don’t have many games yourself.  For kids who have issues with winning/losing, invest in a few cooperative games.  “Max the Cat” by Family Pastimes was a favourite around here when my kids were primary-school aged, along with “Save the Princess”.

Yes, this is Math too!

Peggy Kaye’s book Games for Math and the massive tome Family Math have tons of excellent ideas and activities for the Primary school set to help them really truly understand numbers.  In this age group, two concepts are the most important foundations upon which all further arithmetic is built: place value and finding pairs of numbers that make 10.  Focus on those, and keep it fun.  Both books are useful to about grade 3 or 4, and possibly for kids who need some extra attention to the basics and some confidence-building work up to about grade 5 or so. The games are easy to figure out, and usually don't require much preparation on your part.

Boxcars and One-Eyed Jacks is a series of books (including dice/cards/etc) that are fantastic for learning math.  Do pay close attention to the suggested levels.  We bought the DecaDice book too early, and didn’t find many fun activities for when Kid 2 was that age.  So we put it aside until about grade 3 or 4, and then it got more fun.

From about Grade 1 or 2 onwards, (all the way up to College…), Khan Academy is a great website, and it’s free.  Sal Khan and his website are revolutionizing the way math (and other subjects) can be taught and learned.  Your child will start with a “placement” activity that will throw a bunch of math questions their way (one at a time!).  Warn your child ahead of time that the computer doesn’t know how old they are, and they won’t have learned *lots* of stuff yet, so if they haven’t learned something yet, they can just click on the “I haven’t learned this yet” button and it will gradually narrow stuff down to their level.  They may need support through this because they may get upset, being used to tests that only test what the teacher knows they’ve been taught.  Just stick by them and go through it.  Once they’ve done the placement questions, the system will present many possible activities in different mathematical areas.  Students earn points and badges for various accomplishments (so many right answers in X amount of time, watching X number of videos, etc.).  There are extensive lesson videos that can be accessed for just about any topic your child might need, either for review or learning something new.  Sign yourself up too, so you can try it out (ideally first), and you can sign yourself up as your child’s parent so you can track their progress.

[Note of caution re: signing your child up using their Google account: If your child is under 13, they’re technically not supposed to have a Google or Gmail account, and Google may somehow cotton on to this fact and lock them out of their account.  This happened to us, and while I don’t know how they cottoned on to it, I suspect it could have been through Khan Academy.  The same could apply if they have a Facebook account.  Just sign them up using an e-mail address.]

If you’re looking for something more “workbook-like” (free’s great, but you have $40 per day coming your way!), Maria Miller’s Math Mammoth workbooks may fit the bill.  They aren’t expensive, and you can order them as e-books (i.e. PDFs) so you get them right away and you only need to print out what you’ll use.  There are free assessment “tests” you can download to try on your kid to see what level they’re at, if you’re not sure.  They also have some free sample pages you can try out too.  She has set up her system a couple of possible ways.  You’ll probably be interested in the “light blue series” which are a complete curriculum organized by grade.  But if you know your child has deficiencies in specific topics (or is particularly interested in certain topics) you may want the “blue series” which are organized by topic.  She also has review workbooks, sets of worksheets, and more.  She has a video that explains the differences.  I haven’t used her products, but I do subscribe to her newsletter and I love the way she thinks (Kid 2 just isn’t much into workbooks, so I’ve hesitated to invest.)  She also has some other great resources on her website, including her approach to teaching multiplication, which I think is very effective, and we have used to some extent.

There are also some fun activities on a cool Canadian website called Math Pickle.  They have stuff covering K-12.  Some of it is group activities, which our little homeschooling math group enjoyed doing last year, but much of it could be done with just you and your child.  Some of it doesn’t look much like math, but if you watch the videos, I think this teacher does a great job of explaining the purpose of the activity.  The videos are intended for teachers (though not complicated), but you’ll want to watch them yourself, then organize the activity, then show your kid how to do it.  Don’t just make them watch the video.  Some of the activities are card-based games, and he has a page where he suggests excellent board games.  There is TONS of stuff on this site, much of it organized by grade-level “tabs” at the top of the pages, so make sure you dig around.

Overall

If you’re just looking for a simple one-stop workbook that will cover the bases, we are currently using the Comprehensive Curriculum of Basic Skills Gr. 6 (they have them for each grade, I think) which covers Language Arts and the basics of Math.  In our case we have not had a formal approach to learning… well… anything yet, so we just decided to have something that would just go over everything.  The book is organized into different topics, and while I don’t always think that what they put under each topic actually fits the name they gave it (e.g. the “reading” section is really spelling), it will cover the basics of spelling, grammar and reading comprehension, along with Math.  I calculated how many pages from each section that he would have to complete each week to finish the book in 32 weeks of school, and made a little chart that Kid 2 uses to keep track of how much he’s accomplished that week.  So far so good, especially for my very reluctant writer.  Husband-man bought our copy at Black Bond Books, and if you’re not keen on ordering stuff online from mega-retailers, they’re always happy to bring stuff in for you and can do so pretty quickly.

And if your kid is giving you the “I’m bored” line, here is a list of possible things to do:
(I printed a copy of this and keep it handy.)

(Of course PE = go play outside! Science too!)


Monday 25 August 2014

Bathroom Ta-Da!

Everyone keeps asking if we're finished with the house renovations... well, it's a house - one is never "done" a house!

But here at least is one finished room... or at least it's mostly finished.

Of course, despire poring through my files, I can't find a "before" photo.  So here's a photo of the old vinyl flooring that I found underneath the vanity in the upstairs bathroom:


Ick.  Interestingly, I actually found a very similar design in one of the major flooring companies' online catalogues.

So this room was completely gutted - walls, flooring, windows, the whole nine yards.  We re-arranged the layout a bit, since the original layout had the toilet facing the door.  We also made the doorway a bit wider, which came in handy when Kid 2 was in a wheelchair for a few weeks.  I love the way the flooring turned out... it's a Tarkett fibrefloor (vinyl) that is lovely and warm and cushy, but it looks like marble tile.  Did I mention it's warm underfoot?  A treat for the feet.




I hate tile surrounds in a shower/bath enclosure, so we went with a one-piece fiberglass tub/shower enclosure that the contractor picked out for me at Glass World.  I'm very happy with his choice - it's narrower at the foot/faucet end so filling it uses a bit less water, and it's nicely contoured for leaning back against.  

The contractor usually likes to recommend Toto dual-flush toilets for their reliability, but it just wasn't in our budget.  He did say that he'd had clients who had picked up toilets from Costco (without asking him) and while he had misgivings about it, they seemed to have no problems with them, so we went to Costco to check them out.  I was thrilled to see that they only had 2 toilets available, both at a very good price, so we went for the nicer and slightly more expensive one.  And I didn't have to look at an entire aisle of toilets.



A few weeks ago I installed some open shelves above the toilet for holding all the bathroom stuff.  I re-used shelves and shelf supports that I had on hand, but I think they came from Ikea.  The galvanized mini-buckets are plant pots, also from Ikea, and the green baskets are from Daiso.  On the windowsill is a tower of swing-out containers that we use to store all our hair do-dads.  Every woman with long hair should have a hair do-dad storage tower.  And that oblong thing between the toilet and the wall?  A brilliant Ikea item from a few years ago - the lid lifts up to reveal toilet-paper storage (it holds 9 rolls), and at the back is a toilet brush in its own container that you can lift out so you don't drip icky toilet water anywhere.  

When it came time to install the vanity, I didn't have much time, so I had to go with whatever I found in stock at the home improvement store.  This one was an all-but-the-faucet-in-one and while it was more blindingly white than I had in mind, I really liked the clean-lined sink top on it - no weird corners for gunk to build up.  The shaker door style fits in with my kitchen cabinets and, fortunately, the bathroom door swings such that you can't really compare the colours directly.


The mirror actually came with the house - it was a dusty old mirror with a tacky gold lumpy/carved frame that I found by the furnace in the basement.  I painted the frame shiny black, and replaced the old mirror.  It took a while for Husband Man and I to sort out how it would be mounted - and then he surprised me by putting it up one weekend while I was at work!

Kid 2 insisted that we had to have this faucet.  It cost about $40 more than I wanted to spend, so I told him that if he wanted it, he would have to chip in from his allowance savings, and he readily agreed.


I'm glad he insisted.  This is a lovely piece of jewelry in my bathroom.  It's a Price-Pfister faucet and despite the same brand's failure in my kitchen (long sad story), this one has performed well.

Of course it's not completely done!

If you were paying attention, you might have noticed that the door swings towards the vanity.  I reversed the door swing hoping that it would work better this way.  But it means you have to close the door to use the sink.  That's not a big deal.  A bigger problem: we forgot to tell the electrician about the change in door swing, so the switches are all behind the door.  I hate that, but will have to live with it for now.  

The plastic drawer unit next to the vanity holds important supplies like band-aids and the like.  I just needed that extra little bit of storage and we had this one on hand.  It's not very attractive, but it works just fine for now.  Eventually I'd like to put a set of cabinetry drawers here, but it's tricky finding fully-functional drawers in that width (it definitely can't be wider than 12")

And I'd like to install a small tile backsplash behind the sink.  Just a few rows of subway tile would do the trick.  I will likely tackle that job when I do the backsplash in the kitchen.

Monday 21 July 2014

I Love Cats and Broc-co-li




Our cat Ollie is an escape artist.  When we adopted him from the rescue agency as a 6-month old kitten, we had to promise to keep him inside.  We don’t mind because we understand that indoor cats have much longer lifespans.  They have a lower risk of catching communicable diseases or being injured by cars, people or other animals.  Not to mention less likely to bring fleas in.  But Ollie likes to go out and rumble with the other neighbourhood cats.  He likes to chase (and catch!) birds.  And he likes to eat grass.  It’s a world of adventure out there for him, and he wants out!  

He waits by the door, so we have to kick as we come in the door to keep him from escaping.  (He’s fine, he backs away in plenty of time, so we don’t actually kick him.)  But sometimes we forget, or we’re carrying something in or out and he manages to escape.


Sometimes this leads to problems.  Lately he’s come back a couple of times with badly scraped carpal pads (the pads that go with the claw up by the “wrist” area on the forepaws).  Either it happened fighting or - more likely - climbing trees.  Then he bites them so they don’t heal well, so we have to put the “cone of shame” on him.  And he looks so silly, we can’t help but laugh.  Once he’s healed a bit, the cone comes off and he’s back to his usual escape artistry.

One day last week, Kid 2 and his grandma, Yan Yan, were walking back from the local outdoor swimming pool when they saw Ollie outside.  Kid 2 called him, and he came over, so they grabbed him and brought him home.  Then they realized that there were 2 identical black cats in the house!  Oops.  But which one was Ollie?

Fortunately, Calvin remembered that our cats like broccoli (they get really upset if we cook some and don’t give them any) and we happened to have some left over from dinner.  He put a piece on the floor, and once Ollie pounced on it, they kicked the other cat out.


Careful - they also like chips!  (No, we don't normally give them any... they just try to sneak them, and they eat any crumbs they find.)

Friday 30 May 2014

Farmer Lori Gets her Grow On!

As part of our renovations before we moved in, we had to have the drainage system around the house completely redone, and replace the main water line into the house and the storm water and sewer drains lines out of the house.  Which meant that what little landscaping there was around the house was mostly destroyed.  And then we moved in and had so much else going on inside the house that we didn’t have time to deal with the outside.

So here’s what it looked like last fall:

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Yes, that’s horsetail fern down the middle North side of our east-facing front-yard. (Plus blackberry and ivy and lots of dandelions.  Probably the worst looking yard on the block.)  I wasn’t too fussed about it, since I like the look of horsetail fern, and I think they’re cool plants.  They’ve now spread a bit further and are very well established.  At least they’re green, I thought.  Until I started reading about them this Spring.  They’re very hard to get rid of.

Well, I have never been a fan of lawns.  Eventually I’d like to terrace this bit (there’s a steep hilly portion) and have one level full of asparagus, and the level closest to the sidewalk full of medicinal plants like Echinacea and Valerian.  But first I have to get rid of the horsetail fern.  And there aren’t many plants that can outcompete it, and even herbicides are pretty much useless if I wanted to go down that road (and I don’t).  Digging it out is impossible because they have very deep roots and even the tiniest bit of root will re-grow into lush horsetail ferns.  They prefer low-nutrient soils (and hog whatever they do find).

So here’s the new plan:
Grow CORN!  In my front yard!  For five years!

Yep, I’m gonna dig me some rows, fertilize ‘em and grow me some corn to outcompete them there horsetail ferns.  Of course we have lots of squirrels (they eat all the plums and hazelnuts), so we may get no corn out of the deal, but that’s ok.  And you know, if you let a geeky girl grow corn, she’s going to want to try out the traditional First Nations companion planting “Three Sisters” system, so of course she’s also going to plant beans and squash.  I only like some squash, and I’m the only one in the family who can tolerate it, so we’ll see how that goes.

Today I made a special trip out to Ladner (I LOVE the new South Fraser Perimeter Road - it only takes 30 minutes to get there!) to get seeds from West Coast Seeds’ retail store.  And since I was going out that way, I found a lady on Craigslist who was selling old hay cheap, which I’ll use for mulch between the rows. (Straw would be better but I can’t find any.)  Of course I only have a sedan, so I put one bale in the trunk and one in the back seat.  Note to self: if transporting hay inside a vehicle, it’s probably best to completely wrap up the bale rather than just cover the seat with a tarp, or else you get hay *everywhere*.

I decided to go with the Triplesweet Honey Select Corn.  Then I’ll grow some Purple Peacock beans with them at the front (some attempt at curb appeal), and Scarlet Runners towards the back.  Then pumpkins (mostly for carving) all along the top of the retaining wall next to the sidewalk, Kabocha along the back near the house, Pattypans near the stairs and Spaghetti squash (for my low-carbing sister) along the property line.

I also got a new “Pot Maker” for making little seedling pots out of newspaper.  We have one but we gave it to the inlaws to use after we moved to our townhouse (and had no garden).  I could have got it back from them, but every time we go over there, elder Brother-in-Law gives us more of Husband-Man’s teenage boy stuff.  Bless elder Brother-in-Law for trying to declutter other family members’ stuff from his parents house (where he still lives with all his stuff), but we don’t have any more room for teenage boy stuff at the moment, so it was easier to just buy a new Pot Maker.

While we were down in the states for the Life is Good Unschooling Conference last week (it was a blast), I also picked up two Burpee’s self-watering seedling trays on clearance.  ($5 each!)  They come with little pellets of seed starting mix, and Kid 2 thoroughly enjoyed adding water to these to see them fluff up and fill the cells.  Here’s one all sown with corn on my table (well, the lid is on, so it just looks like a plastic square):

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Pardon the mess on my kitchen table.  I suddenly discovered that I had to rearrange my kitchen (and basement and garage) to make this project happen.

I also made lots of pots, because these trays only have 16 cells each, and I had a lot of corn to grow in a hurry.  I decided to start the seedlings indoors because the ground’s not ready yet, and I don’t want to go to all that trouble only to have squirrels dig up the seeds before they sprout, and because our last few Junes have not been very warm.  I set up my new seedling storage system next to the back door using an Ikea Trofast unit that wasn’t being well-utilized in the basement, and discovered that the Trofast bins are perfect for putting all my newspaper pots in.

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And that’s 98 seeds sown, in hopes of getting 96 plants.  That could be a lot of sweet corn… there might be a few corn boils in my future…

And in the backyard, I was going to cut down the rosebush by the back door because it’s a bit straggly and Emily is allergic to roses.  But it’s not very smelly.  And then it gave me this today:

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It might have to stay...

Monday 17 February 2014

Homeschooling the Boss

(I know it's been a while since I last posted - you're dying to know how the house is going... well I'm gearing up to post more, but for now, you'll have to wait a bit more while I share other thoughts...)

On our local homeschooling e-mail group, we had an interesting discussion about well-meaning loved ones who don’t understand or support homeschooling.  One parent was sharing a story about a relative who said:

"When she's working, if her boss gives her something she doesn't see the point of, she can't just not do it."

Kid 2 sees the point of cleaning the windshield.



Another parent had a very brilliant reply:

“As for the comments about not being able to say no to a boss in ‘real’ life...well, if you're planning on an extra income stream through child labour, that may apply.  Otherwise, I'd tell grandma that what makes her think your daughter won't actually BE the boss.”

Child labour: Kid 2 is a spackling expert.
Kid 2, aged 10, is still wiggly, and if he's not interested, he has a tough time paying attention.  But if he is really engaged in something - either because he is interested, or he is really attached to the person who has asked him to do it - he'll just knuckle right down and get it done!  For example, he hates writing, but today they were doing some writing at his Soaring Eagle class, and he got to the computer as soon as he got home to look stuff up and write it down, because he just LOVES the woman who leads the class.  I can see that being an adaptive attitude in a work environment - you do your work really well either because you love it, or because you love the people there - either the ones you serve, or the coworkers, or the boss.  Thinking about my own work, I think a little bit of each applies to me, and helps me get through what are sometimes very challenging days.

More to the point, schools exist primarily to create employees.  They were intended to create a uniform workforce, but they’re not very good at producing independent, innovative thinkers.  Or at least they don’t reward such tendencies.  But being an employee is not the best strategy for an individual in our society.  In general, our taxation and financial systems tend to favour business owners.  Two hundred years ago, just about every “Average Joe” was his own boss, whether he was a baker or a carpenter or a tailor (or a seamstress or a laundress or…), other than the serving class who worked for wealthy families.  So while I’m fine if my child grows up to be an employee, I’m rather hoping that he’ll go out on a limb and find his own way to do his own thing.  And this is something that homeschooled folks seem to be good at!
Maybe being a boss means more fishing!






You go, girls and boys!  Be the BOSSES!